A: No. There’s not a polite way to disinvite someone to a wedding. Talk to your daughter about why she needs to make the cuts. If it’s financial, offer to cover the expense of accommodating your friends. Few wedding-planning tasks are more stressful than negotiating the size of the guest list. That’s why it’s best to wait to talk to family and friends until the details are final. Remember that some invitees will decline the invitation, creating wiggle room on the final guest list.
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