Kids & Parents ~ Teens

Tips on Going to the Prom

Got a Date?

This is no longer THE BIG ISSUE. Plenty of people go to proms solo or in groups, not as couples.

Saying yes.

Once you accept an invitation to a prom, you are committed. We all know the story of the girl who kept waiting for the better offer that never arrived. And it’s pretty lame to turn someone down because “I’m going to be out of town” and then show up with someone else.

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Proms today can be expensive, so it is common for couples or groups to share the costs. This is definitely something that should be agreed upon right after you decide to go so everyone can save up. Most couples or groups split all the costs equally, including tickets, meals and transportation.

Dining at a restaurant or using a limousine service? Remember to give a tip if it is not already included in the service.

Plan Ahead!

Don’t wait until the last minute to make your arrangements for a limo, restaurant, tux rental or flowers. You could be disappointed.

Some vendors offer discounts to early birds who book ahead. Check it out.

Flowers

If your date is cool enough to give you a corsage or boutonnière— wear it!

Have no clue what goes with “a sort of turquoise silk?” You can't go wrong with white—roses, baby's breath, freesia, stephanotis, spicy carnations—all are pretty, and smell terrific. The florist can help you stay within your budget.

Formal or Semi-formal

Formal usually means long gowns and tuxedos. Semi-formal usually means short dresses and dinner jackets or sport coats and ties. If you are inviting a date from another school, clue them in about what to wear.

Tuxes now come in all colors, but your basic black model
still looks great and is kinder to your wallet.
Jazz it up with a cool bow tie and cummerbund (the sash thing).

Everybody Dance Now

That’s the name of the game at proms today. Solo - group - couple it doesn’t matter, just as long as you dance.

And Don’t Forget

Spiff up your manners to match your outfit.

Let Mom and Dad take your picture. (You’ll love it later!)

Stay sober. And don’t get in a car with a driver or anyone else who has been drinking. Better yet, take away the keys. Have some cab money just in case. You want to remember this evening as a special highlight in your life, not a tragedy. Prom Safety Tips

Be back by curfew and keep your parents informed of any change in plans. (“Look, Mom—I’m responsible!”)

Have a great time!

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