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Wedding Planning: 9-12 Months In Advance Hero Label

Wedding Planning: 9-12 Months In Advance

What to check off your list less than a year before the Big Day:

  • Select your wedding gown and accessories. Look for bridesmaids’ dresses.
  • Finish hiring wedding professionals. Sign contracts for services.
  • Decide whether to include children and guests of single friends.
  • Create a master guest list. Get the names, addresses, phone numbers, and e-mail addresses of all invited guests.
  • Make honeymoon reservations.
  • Open gift registries and start selecting items for them.
  • If desired, create a wedding website.
  • Create a gift record so that you can record gifts as they are received.
  • Promptly write thank-you notes for gifts as you receive them.