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Building Your New Family

Your decision to remarry affects your children in a huge way, since they'll now be part of a new family structure. Including your children in the wedding planning, ceremony, and reception can help ease the transition into this new arrangement. It's important to remember, however, that because kids often have mixed feelings about seeing their mother or father marry someone new, you should leave it up to your children themselves to decide how much they want to be involved in the various aspects of the wedding.

Laying the groundwork

Here are some suggestions on how to help the transition go smoothly.
Talking to Family

Involving your children in the wedding

Here are some popular ways for children to participate in a second wedding.
Planning the wedding
At the ceremony
At the reception