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Hosts & Guests

The Host - Guest Dance, Know the Steps and the Tune

Manners for how to be a good host and a good guest are some of the most important in social life. Life event parties from proms and quinceaneras, to wedding showers, to baby showers, to housewarmings, to birthdays, to graduation and retirements parties are often guided by traditional etiquette that has worked for generations. Formal dinners, casual gatherings and friends dropping by also have host - guest social expectations that are based on many of the principles of good etiquette. And lets not forget all that come up when hosting or visiting friends and family for longer stays and holidays. A good partner can dance with anyone but our advice may help you navigate your next turn as host or guest with fewer missteps and restarts.