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Tight Budget Bridesmaid Hero Label

Tight Budget Bridesmaid

Tell her truthfully that even though you would love to be a bridesmaid, you have limited means and wouldn't be able to afford an expensive dress. That way, you give her the choice of finding someone else or selecting a less expensive dress. If you are really close, the bride may decide that her wedding would not be complete without you and offer discreetly to buy the dress for you herself.