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The Lessons of the Past can Prepare us for the Future

While etiquette changes and evolves over time, some things do remain remarkably constant. The social expectations that have been the most durable for generations provide a strong framework for understanding how to support relationships. You will find many examples like this here.

The manners that change and evolve over time also teach us things and have the power to reveal what is essential and requires change from us. It can also just be fun (if you are an etiquette geek like we are) to look back at what used to be expected with the understanding and perspective that only the passage of time can provide. You will also find information on anacranistic manners like these from other times and eras. 

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    General Tipping Guide

    When and where and how much to tip: Tipping guidelines for three of the most common times tipping is…

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      Official Forms of Address: United States Government

      Learn the letter address, salutation, spoken greeting and formal introduction for United States government…
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      Official Forms of Address: State Government

      Learn the letter address, salutation, spoken greeting and formal introduction for state government officials.
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      Official Forms of Address: Religious Dignitaries

      Learn the letter address, salutation, spoken greeting and formal introduction for religious dignitaries.
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      Official Forms of Address: Professional

      Learn the letter address, salutation, spoken greeting and formal introduction for professionals like…
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      Official Forms of Address: Diplomatic

      Learn the letter address, salutation, spoken greeting and formal introduction for diplomats.
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    Addressing a Former President of the United States

    When addressing a former President of the United States in a formal setting, the correct form is “Mr.…
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    Announcing a New Baby

    The arrival of a new family member (now matter how the baby or child arrives) is one of the most exciting,…
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    Removing the Mystery: Cousins "Once Removed"

    Sarah and Luke are cousins. But what are their children to one another... and who is "once removed"?
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    Guide to Writing Men's Names with Suffixes

    Learn how to use and write men's names with suffixes. All the basics on using Mr., Jr., Sr., II, III…
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    Professional Title Etiquette: When to Use Your Dr. Title

    Here are some tips on the correct use of professional titles such as doctor, lawyer, or reverend doctor.
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    What is Protocol?

    Protocol is the glue that holds official life together—the observance of precedence and rank in aspects…
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    Traditional Gendered Courtesies

    Is chivalry dead? Yes and no.
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    The "Mrs." Question

    Married and divorced women different have options in how they choose to be addressed.
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    Military Titles

    Learn how to properly address those with military titles in conversation and in correspondence. This…
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    Audience Etiquette

    Today, there's a wealth of entertainment offered in widely differing settings, but the following fundamentals…
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    Appropriate Applause at Classical Music Performances

    When attending a classical music performance, novice guests often worry about when to clap. These are…
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    Making Introductions

    Many people think that introducing themselves or introducing someone is so complicated that they tend…
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    Q&A: The Manners of Downton Abbey, Then and Now

    Anna Post joined Vermont PBS for an on-air pledge drive Q&A about the difference between our manners…
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    New Neighbors

    In today's highly mobile society, it's not so unusual for people to move into a neighborhood almost without…
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    Spring Break Travel Tips

    Traveling this Spring? Avoid the Stress with Lizzie Post’s Travel Tips. With spring break just around…
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    Definition of Etiquette

    The philosophy of etiquette is timeless and everlasting, whereas manners – the outward expression of…
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    Flag Etiquette for Memorial Day Weekend

    The American flag is considered a living entity and never dips to any person or thing. It is the premier…
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    Wearing White After Labor Day

    Should you wear white after labor day? This article explores the tradition of the guideline and why it…
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    Good Halloween Manners - Five Tips for Trick or Treating

    Halloween is a fun holiday for children, but it's easy to forget basic manners when there is so much…
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    Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

    Valentine’s Day, while romantic, can be fraught with gifting and planning stress. Here are some tips…