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Wedding Planning: 6-9 Months In Advance Hero Label

Wedding Planning: 6-9 Months In Advance

What to check off your list no less than half a year before the Big Day:

  • Order bridesmaids’ dresses and accessories.
  • Order your invitations, announcements, personal stationery, and other printed accessories and invitation enclosures. Obtain envelopes in advance.
  • Schedule the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner. Notify attendees of the schedule.
  • Schedule religious or personal counseling sessions, as desired or as required by your faith.
  • Select the groom’s and ushers’ wedding attire; schedule rentals as necessary.
  • Help your mothers choose and coordinate their outfits.
  • Plan/reserve accommodations and activities for out-of-town guests and attendants as necessary.
  • Discuss prenuptial agreements. Draw up with lawyers if needed.
  • If you want an out-of-town officiant to perform your ceremony, consult the local clergy to ascertain related regulations and requirements.
  • Choose your reception menu and the type of food-and-beverage service.